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Mike Bonikowsky writes about the experience of Advent in a group home setting. He explores themes of waiting and anticipation in everyday life. The post highlights the importance of presence and community during this time.

In the group home they are waiting

Waiting in the group home

Waiting for the phone to ring

Waiting for the pill to work

Waiting for the shift to change

Waiting for the Lord to come.

The Lord's return

On the day that he returns

They’ll be waiting by the door

With their shoes already on

Telling me to hurry up.


An advent wreath sits on a table.  The candles are unlit and it is in shadow.  In the background is a nativity scene.
Photo by Julian Hochgesang on Unsplash

About the Author:

Mike Bonikowsky:

Mike Bonikowsky lives and works in Dufferin County, Ontario. He is a direct support professional with the local Association for Community Living and spends the rest of his time raising two young children. He has been living and working with men and women with developmental disabilities since 2007. He is an editor for Ekstasis

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Mike Bonikowsky writes about the experience of Advent in a group home setting. He explores themes of waiting and anticipation in everyday life. The post highlights the importance of presence and community during this time.

In the group home they are waiting

Waiting in the group home

Waiting for the phone to ring

Waiting for the pill to work

Waiting for the shift to change

Waiting for the Lord to come.

The Lord's return

On the day that he returns

They’ll be waiting by the door

With their shoes already on

Telling me to hurry up.


An advent wreath sits on a table.  The candles are unlit and it is in shadow.  In the background is a nativity scene.
Photo by Julian Hochgesang on Unsplash

Mike Bonikowsky lives and works in Dufferin County, Ontario. He is a direct support professional with the local Association for Community Living and spends the rest of his time raising two young children. He has been living and working with men and women with developmental disabilities since 2007. He is an editor for Ekstasis

Views expressed are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect this forum or its partners.

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