Mike Bonikowsky

Mike Bonikowsky

Mike Bonikowsky lives and works in Dufferin County, Ontario. He is a direct support professional with the local Association for Community Living and spends the rest of his time raising two young children. He has been living and working with men and women with developmental disabilities since 2007. He is an editor for Ekstasis
  • Published On: June 5, 2023By

    I am having a bad day at the group home, the sort of day where I find myself drafting resignation letters in my head. There is too much to do, and [Read More]

  • Published On: February 27, 2023By

    Supporting a person with a developmental disability to grieve is not a matter of coming alongside, but of remaining where we already were.

  • Published On: January 11, 2023By

    As we welcome the new year, we're pleased to share this poem by Mike Bonikowsky.

  • Published On: October 3, 2022By

    The technicians had very kindly broken the rules and allowed me to stay with him in the room, but I was still outside of the tube. I had the freedom of my limbs. The noises the machine made were not inches from my ears. I called encouraging words to him inside the tube, but they were just more sounds. So I did the only thing I could think to do. ...

  • Published On: May 2, 2022By

    So much of what we do on a daily basis we do without qualifications. We walk through every conceivable season of a person’s life with them because we are the ones who happen to be present when the call comes.

  • Published On: March 8, 2022By

    Caregiving is one of the hardest things there is to do well. Second to it in difficulty is writing about caregiving well.